Thursday, September 10, 2009

Getting Your Dream Girl

Getting that perfect ten seems to be a difficult thing to do. You understand my meaning. The sweaty palms, the jitters and ultimately getting that big fat, 'get lost.' You will be saying to yourself, she won't like me. Or, man, I'm not that good looking. Well men, I have some great news for you. You can score your perfect ten. And it's easier than you'd ever think!
To start it's essential for you to see that what you believe about yourself inside is externalized on the outside. Have you ever heard the expression, you wear your heart on your shoulder? This is the absolute truth. We do it all the time. If you're not confident, then that cutie you are wanting to meet will see it before they even see your hair color. This is pretty much the same as a dog sensing your fear. Don't be rattled.
Remember that she's just another person on this planet, just like you. And if your plans don't pan out, then try with another girl. Sounds kind of cold, but it is the truth. As an example, here's a story for you. I had an acquaintance that wasn't the best looking. Actually, he was downright ugly. But he'd always approach and date the perfect tens! Why? As I mentioned earlier. He mastered his fear when it came to meeting young women and the ladies couldn't resist him. Does he still get rejected here and there? You bet.
But he doesn't let him deter him one single bit.Your initial steps are to believe that you are good enough and handsome enough to catch that perfect ten. You are good enough, handsome enough and you do have the personality to hit it off. If you can talk and laugh and joke with your buddies, then you can do exactly the same with that perfect ten.
Next is to just do it. Go up to the that perfect ten in a popular hangout and start talking to her. Oh, and for your sake, avoid the ones with big boyfriends! Just go up and introduce yourself and make small talk. You'll be amazed at the results you'll have. Now, like I mentioned about my friend earlier, it won't work out every time, but you'll be surprised at how often it does work. The more you try, the more success you'll have too.
Remember that perfect ten is just like you. They also want to have a wonderful relationship with someone special as much as you do, in most cases. Keep that in mind when you approach her!

Frank Thomas

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