Do you notice that when you are becoming highly aroused, a few drops of clear fluid may trickle out of your penis? This fluid actually comes from the prostate and other glands, such as the Cowper's glands, which produces an alkaline fluid used to lubricate the urethra and pave the way for the sperm.
This fluid is perfectly natural, if you are wondering, and it signals the approach of contractile phase orgasm. It may also contain a number of sperm in it. Therefore, you may want to make sure that you continue to use birth control even if you don't ejaculate in your partner.
If you plan not to ejaculate, the semen will be broken down and reabsorbed by the body, just as the sperm are reabsorbed in a man who has had a vasectomy. With a vasectomy, the cum is cut just above the testicles and the sperm have nowhere to go. Although the sperm are eventually reabsorbed, many men complain about the feelings of "congestion" in the testicles and pelvis.
There is one other thing that can happen to your semen besides being ejaculated or reabsorbed by your body, it happens when you experience an orgasm without ejaculating but you lose your erection. If losing your erection is not due to a decrease in your arousal, you probably have experienced a retrograde or backward ejaculation. When this occurs, the semen will go into your bladder and passes out harmlessly when you urinate.
However, holding your ejaculation is not easy for any average Joe, you need years of practice in order for your sexual muscles (not just limited to your penis) to be strong enough to hold the ejaculation. On top of that, you will also need massive amount of your concentration, making the whole love-making session a bit of a chore.
Fortunately, there are other ways to hold your ejaculation and satisfy both you, and your partner. That is to take herbal supplements. Herbal supplements are both safe and effective, making you stay longer and harder in the "game" that will allow you to enjoy the process even more.
Dr Alex Chan
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