Monday, August 10, 2009

Why Men Have Affairs

When it comes to the battle of the sexes, generally we all know that men have a more lustful sexual desire compared to women. Being persuasive and seductive is in their nature. Men will generally make the first move on the women. Few men need a reason; most of them just need an opportunity.
The most common reason why men have affairs is the lustful sex drive they have on women. Sexual attraction contributes too many of the reasons that men have affairs. Not with just a woman, but with numerous women. It's like they enjoy trying out new things, and like little boys with a new toy, once they got bored, they threw it away and look for a new one.
Another point that contributes to men having affairs is their very own wife. Remember the times when you we're dating the man of your dreams, how you would flaunt yourself, keep your body in shape, dressed up and get all pretty for them, Why because you know, these are the first impressions that most men look for. Your facial appearance and how you dress yourself. After you are married, after your first newborn child, many of us do tend to slack off from keeping ourselves fit and looking good.
Being a man, they're constantly attracted to beauty. Beauty is something that turns their head around, twice. Generally, first impressions make the most impact on a person's judgment. When it comes to physical attraction, showing off and utilizing your assets attracts men. Of course there are many kinds of beauties, but the most men look for is physical. In other words, men like hot, intelligent, sexy and attractive women.
A major breakdown in their marriage, through mis-communications, break of trust, always arguing over the same things, and even financial matters are key reason for the breakdown of many marriages. When both parties are against each other, they will want to look for someone who agrees with them. Then when one or the other finds someone who they thinks is more compatible with them compared to his/her current mate, surely an affair will begin to build with that person, going all the way down infidelity lane, to the end of your marriage.

Beverly Brown

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