Have you ever wondered why your woman has suddenly gone cold on you? Why she's giving you those don't talk to me , I hate you looks and constantly slamming the door on your face 'for no reason at all'? Oh boy, your girl is simply and clearly unhappy, and unless you're aiming for a break up, better stop scratching your head and do something to get that frown off of her pretty face! Here are some helpful tips and advices on how to keep that relationship running smoothly and steadily.
First things first. courtship mustn't end with the Yes or I Do words from your woman. This is mostly what women's complaints are all about, that their man is not as "sweet" or as "romantic" as they used to be when they were still courting. It doesn't follow that just because you 'land' her you should stop sweeping her off her feet. Keep those roses coming, write those romantic little love notes every now and then and don't forget to let her catch you steal those I can't take my eyes of you glances (even if its just to wonder if there's a name to the strange looking hue she put in her eyelids).
Next, make it a point to do random things for her like taking out the trash for her. getting her a cup of hot chocolate or her favorite coffee blend while she's doing overtime work, or buying her a copy of that movie she missed watching on the big screen. Doing those small, thoughtful gestures spontaneously and constantly lets her know of your concern and appreciation for her. For most women, these little thoughtful things weigh far more than the grand and lavish gestures men shower on their women just to impress them.
It might also be helpful to note that women rate a good sense of humor highest amongst men's qualities that attracts them to men. So keep tabs on the things that make your woman laugh; Does she find your jokes funny? What are the things that usually get that smile on her face to show up? Never let the day end without getting a laugh out of her and you'll never see the end of your relationship with her.
But then again, there's the matter of those mysterious, out of the blue mood swings. Those hormonal mood changes in women that usually baffle men. Being sensitive to her feelings and understanding her during these moments might not make her jump for joy but it will certainly help you keep off her bad side.
Another good advice to heed for keeping the love of your life happy is making an effort to fit in to her family and social circle. It will definitely please her if you take the time and go out of your way to bond with her relatives and friends. on occasions. Women constantly need to validate their choices and decisions thru their social circle, and it gives them a sense of security to know their partners fit in.
Lastly, put that imaginary blinder on whenever you're with her and quit staring at other women. Don't get her thinking you are comparing her to other women and thus, fuel her already steaming insecurities. Flatter your woman with your undivided attention, every time she's with you and don't take her for granted. She's there with you because you wanted her to in the first place.
These little tit bits on relationship are just a few of what I gleaned from The Magic of Making up. These ideas aren't new. They are as old as man's common sense, but sometimes we need someone else to point the obvious for us and get us to see that in every relationship, we must take an active part and make an effort to make our partners happy. There is never a guarantee that your relationship will last, but you can always do something to make it a happy, fulfilling one
Mirian guimaraes Thomas
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