Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Earn his love and keep it

Are you determined to earn his love and make him see you are the one? Is there a man in your life that you are mad about? What would you be willing to do to earn the love of that special guy? The great news is that you don't have to go to extremes to get a guy to notice you and to earn his love. All you have to do is take the following advice and apply it in your life today.

First, take a deep breath and relax. You do not need to be the one who is chasing after him right now! Instead, let him be the one to come to you. Men love to be the ones who are doing the hunting. If you chase after him, or let him win you too easily, he is not as likely to value you as if he really had to work to get your attention.

Now, make sure that when he does ask you out, you mix it up. He should be making creative suggestions about where the two of you will be going and what you should be doing. But even if he doesn't and if you are still interested, you should do it yourself. Don't let him get bored! Make exciting suggestions of places that will really stimulate his senses. He will know that spending time with you will never be dull.

Next, as you begin to establish a connection, make sure that it isn't based only on lust. You need to be bonding on an emotional level as well, if a long term relationship is going to be the end result. Don't let him pressure you into the sexual encounter before that solid foundation is built. If you do, you will end up regretting it.

Finally, be sure that you convince him that you are a great partner. Men also want to be able to find someone who makes them feel secure and happy and whom they can see themselves building a life with. You can earn his love by being his friend, helping him to gain trust in you, and doing what you can to make him comfortable with the idea of loving you.


Tina Jones

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