Tuesday, July 28, 2009

How to Call a Man

Have you ever given your phone number to a gorgeous man hoping that he would call and ask you out? Have you ever spent long hours waiting by the phone wishing it would ring and he would be on the other end of the line? Do you feel bad when he doesn't call you immediately after your date? Don't worry you aren't alone; many women wish they knew how to call a man.
The after effects of a first date can be really nerve wracking because you come home and begin to anticipate his call, hoping that he wants a second date. Remember that some guys prefer not to call straight away, while others do not call at all. It can be tricky calling men, like a guessing game. Should you wait or should you call yourself? If you call first do you look desperate and needy?
Calling a man shouldn't be this difficult. Here are some tips on how to call a man.
At the very start of a relationship, the man should be the one who initiates the calls. Try to avoid calling but if you need to don't sound needy and desperate, keep the call light and fun. Communication is the key to a good relationship but boundaries are important. Calling him to see what he has eaten for dinner, or calling his office just to see if he is there makes you come off not only as needy and desperate but as creepy! He needs his own personal space so remember that.
Don't be too available. Stop picking up every single one of his calls. Let him wait a bit, let him wonder where you are and what your doing. Keep the chase going it will spark his imagination, which is always a good thing to do. But don't neglect him, there is a balance to this, practice and you will find your rhythm.
When you are calling your man, don't spend large amounts of time on the phone. Keep the calls short and sweet. Short calls will encourage more face-to-face meetings, which is what you want. Once you know how to call a man he won't want to be calling you he will want to be seeing you in person.

Tina Jones

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