Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Secret to everlasting romance

You've finally found the guy that has it all. He is smart, funny, great-looking and you have so many things in common. You feel like picking up the phone and calling everyone you know to tell them that you have met your soul-mate. But what if the guy that you have fallen for so hard, doesn't fall for you? Don't take chances with your fate; you have the power to make a guy fall in love with you. This article will show you how.

If he is just too good to lose, you will want to do everything in your power to make sure that you can keep him. The first thing that you have to do is make sure that he admires you. Don't think that admiration is limited to appearance. A guy can love the way that a woman looks and not admire her personality or individuality at all.

To get him to admire your personality, you have to be positive. No one wants to be around someone who is moping and negative all of the time. When you are with him, keep it light. Try to draw him into conversations about things that he is passionate about or, better yet, about passions that the two of you share. Try to make him laugh. Laughter and infatuation release similar chemicals into the brain.

Know what really makes a guy fall in love? It isn't great legs or a killer body. Guys honestly admire women who are individuals and who embrace their unique identities. If he wanted to date someone who thought the same way and had all of the same opinions as himself, then he would make a clone and ask it to marry him. You may think that agreeing with everything that he says impresses him. But quite the contrary, he will grow bored and think that you are a phony.

If you haven't noticed by now, what makes a guy fall in love really is a girl who is not afraid to be herself. Remember, you can't hide who you really are from your lover forever. So if you want a lasting relationship, be real from the get-go.

Tina Jones

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