Ask any guy and he'll tell you that he's at least a little shy around girls. Self-confidence is absolutely vital when it comes to dealing with women, but it's easily shaken when we get rejected. On the flip side, being successful in your interaction is a massive boost to one's self-confidence.
Regardless, before you leap into the fray, you must boost your self-confidence. Below you'll find three tips to help improve your confidence.
How to Get Over Shyness and Be More Confident Around Girls
Tip #1: "Act Relaxed." Even if you're not really feeling comfortable and self-assured in a situation, you should just try and fake it.
It's important to keep in mind that there are many fish in the sea, so even if you mess up with one girl, there are many others to try with. However, if you really have your sights set on one particular girl, then you should try to appear that you're not particularly interested in her. If you come across as desperate for her attention, she won't give you the time of day.
Tip #2: "Use The Astral Projection Technique." Picture yourself in a place where you're totally surrounded by pretty girls. Now imagine yourself being total suave and cool and have no confidence issues. Try and match your mindset to this imaginary world and it will start to come true for you.
Tip #3: "Control the Balance of Power." Another way to fight confidence troubles is to remove a woman's power to reject you. This goes right along with Tip #1 - if you stay cool and don't act like you're desperate to get with her, but rather just want to casually talk, you'll find that the sexual tension starts to build and she'll end being the one to pursue you
Derek Rake
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