What wouldn't you do to get your lover back...to turn back time and start again with a clean slate? But you feel that things have gone a little too far...it seems too complicated and difficult. In spite of all this you want your ex back! I know the searing pain you feel each morning when you wake up, and every song that you heard together, every place that you visited serves as a painful reminder of your break up. But you can salvage your relationship and I shall tell you how.
Get a plan
Calling your ex repeatedly without having anything to say is not what we do. If your ex is not back with you, you need to stop trying for the moment. Get a plan and work according to it in a calm, mature and methodical manner.
Respect yourself
It's time that you learn to respect yourself. If you act like a complete push over, that's what you'll be and let me tell you, you will have no one else to blame except yourself. Ignore your ex for a while. Don't text, call or mail your ex. Give them a chance to miss you. Meanwhile, get your act straight and work on your shortcomings.
Be friends
Send a mail to your ex and apologize for your faults. Give your ex the credit for making you want to be a better person. Be friends with your ex's friends and family. They will keep him abreast of your life.
Get a life
The best way to get over a break-up is to get out there and have some fun. Keep yourself in circulation. Go on in life as though nothing has happened. Let your ex see that you are a strong and confident person and there are many more fish in the sea. I'm telling you, your ex is bound to see his/her mistake and will want you back.
Jason Leading
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