Are you beginning to wonder if your man is ever going to fully commit to you? Are you more than ready to commit to him, but fear that he's just playing games? Are you concerned that he may be afraid of commitment? Here are three techniques you can use to move things along and make him commit to you.
#1 - Take a break
It's less likely that he's afraid of commitment than that he simply takes your presence in his life for granted. If you are always available to him, he will see no need to commit to you. He just assumes you'll always be there for him.
It's up to you to disabuse him of this notion. Find things to do without him. Don't always be available at a moment's notice to do something with him. Let him know (subtly) that you have other things in your life and that you will have to fit him in when it is convenient for you to do so. He'll soon realize that his life is not nearly as nice when you're not around.
#2 - Be happy and excited when he calls
You don't always have to be available when he calls, but it's important to let him know that you haven't lost interest in him. When he calls for a date, let him know that you are excited and looking forward to spending time with him. That way, he won't get discouraged and give up on you altogether.
#3 - Make your times together memorable
When you are with him, make sure you pull out all the stops and make each date a wonderful experience for him. Give him your undivided attention. Plan fun and exciting things to do. Make each date a stark contrast with the times you are not together. That way, he'll begin to see that he needs you in his life to be truly happy.
Use these three techniques to get him to start thinking about what he can do to keep you in his life and not risk losing you. Once he stops taking you for granted, it will be much easier for you to make him commit to you for the long-term.
Tina Jones
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