We've all been there at one stage or another... the dreaded long distance relationship.
It might be a full blown geographic problem because one of you moved away for school, family or work. Maybe you met online and simply live on opposite sides of the country. Or perhaps you're temporarily apart while one of you is traveling for the summer. Whatever the reason for the distance separating the two of you, it sucks, doesn't it?
There is almost nothing worse than being apart from the guy you love!
But the news isn't all bad. You can use your time away from each other to show him just how inventive and fun you can be, even when he's not right there next to you. It'll make him miss you all the more... and think how awesome that will make things when you next get to see each other ;)
So here are some great tips you can use to make sure the distance isn't all doom and gloom. In fact, you'll be able to use them to actually strengthen your relationship (it's true!) AND have a whole load of fun along the way.
Let's have a look at the tools at your disposal. Everyone has at least one of the following:
1. a phone 2. the internet 3. pen and paper 4. a camera...
...so there are no excuses! Using any one of these tools you can really rock his world with dirty notes and surprise messages, and using a combination of all of them? Well, you'll be unstoppable!
Here are just some of the suggestions I have on how you can use these tools to spice up your long distance relationship.
1. The Phone
Of course you already know about phone sex. If you've done it before you'll know how fun it can be to talk about what you'd like him to be doing to you, what you're doing to yourself, or any number of other little scenarios you think he will enjoy. And if you haven't done it before, now's the time to start! Just begin by telling him how much you've desired him all day and how you pictured him when you masturbated last night... and let it go from there.
I know phone sex can be a bit daunting for some people, though, so if you're not comfortable with it just yet, here are some other ways you can use your phone to let your guy know you're thinking of him:
* Text messaging: Sometimes it's a lot easier to be dirty in a text than it is to say the words out loud. Plus, you can send a text any time of the day or night regardless of the time zones that might be separating you.
* Picture messaging: Guys are extremely visual, so send him a saucy picture when he isn't expecting it. Stuck for ideas? How about taking your phone with you to the restroom next time you go and take a shot of your boobs for him (even in your bra). He'll have a huge grin in his face all day when he gets it!
* Voice messaging: Call your guy when you know he's asleep or busy, so you get is voicemail or answering machine, then leave a wonderfully dirty message he'll hear the next time he checks it. Guaranteed to make him smile.
2. The Internet
Hop online and send your guy dirty emails or suggestive instant messages. It's an excellent way to get time together, and you can be as dirty as you like, wherever you are... even at work (just use a personal email account!).
And then there's webcamming :) If you both have internet access MAKE SURE you each have a webcam you can use so you'll be able to see each other, no matter where you are. Remember, again, that guys can be very visual, so a webcam is your opportunity to let him see what he's missing.
3. Pen and Paper
Failing all forms of modern technology, there is good old fashioned pen and paper. Everyone loves getting mail, and your guy is going to LOVE a letter filled with all the things you're going to do to him when you see him again. You can also send photos, CDs, mementos, etc. But bear in mind you're not a penpal, you're his lover. If you really want to get him hot, leave out the teddy bears... keep the content strictly adult.
4. A Camera
Well, I'm not sure I have to expand on this one. Just recall that men love an image we can stare at time and again (hello... this is why we love porn!). Why not make yourself his own personal porn star? You can keep it tasteful if you want... or really go to town. Either way he's going to love you for it and remember why he wants to be back with you as soon as he is able.
So how about that? Has this given you some ideas about how to add a spark to your long distance love? I hope so!
I realized when I was going through this list that I haven't even scratched the surface, so stay tuned for the next article I have planned on this topic... it'll cover some essential dos and don'ts for keeping your long distance relationship alive and THRIVING.
Evan Michael
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