If you've been happily buzzing along with a man you're having sex with hoping that he'll take your relationship to the next level, you need to know that him having sex with you does not mean that he's committed to you or going to commit to you.
This is one of the most shocking reality that women are not aware of. Many women are being a man's "girlfriend" hoping that he'll take the relationship further.
A man knows that you agreeing to have sex with him creates an idea in your mind that you want a relationship. What you may not know is that he can have sex with you for months and NOT want a relationship.
As a matter of fact, you can hang out and have fun together and he still wont commit if you do not know how to create the opportunities for that.
I believe the number one thing that stops women from getting what they really want is FEAR. They are afraid to loose the "connection" they feel with a man so they go along with being together even when a man has not made it clear that he wants long-term.
If you have been replacing his together time with you and holding out for him to say the words, it will not happen.
You have to steer the relationship in the direction you're wanting it to go and you can do this in a classy way where you'll maintain your dignity and self-respect.
When a man sees that you are a very selective woman who wont continue a sexual relationship without having what you really want, he'll stand up and take notice.
Nicole Gayle
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