So you are going through a break up? Well it can be tough but there is a way out of this hell and it is not be moping around the house doing nothing. What you need to do at times like this is take action! Action that will allow you to save your relationship!
You may not feel like even getting out of bed in the mornings but this article hopefully will give you a plan to focus on to stay positive and also to work on getting your loved one back to you.
1. Make Contact - The first thing that you need to do if you want to save your relationship is make contact with them. You have to do this in an educated manner! It is no good banging on their door at all hours in the morning, or texting them on their cell phone and not leaving them alone. No to do this properly you should be polite and arrange to meet where both of you feel comfortable. Instead of dinner, plan a light lunch where you too will fell more comfortable.
2. Be Honest And Take The Blows - OK, so you meet up. It is no good holding a grudge or blaming them or yourself for the break up. It has happened and what you should be focused on now is the end result which is getting your lover back. You need to discuss your relationship openly and be honest about what you both want to be able to fix it. Take your time and I know it sounds mad, but relax and enjoy yourselves. Make it clear that you do want to save the relationship.
3. Moving On - Chances are after you have spoken to your partner and they have told you some of their issues you will be a little shocked. You probably had no idea they were so unhappy.
Although tell them that you will pay them more attention and work with them to make the relationship work - it is a cliche but it is a 2 way thing!
If you follow these 3 steps you will be closer to saving your relationship! Good Luck!
Sam Newton
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